Fly free from emotional abuse

I understand that pain all too well, I was not only emotionally abused by my ex-husband, but I was emotionally abused by his family too. After I came back home to live with my parents, I found comfort and healing in music. Now I am writing a book called Embracing the Healing Power of Music: Seven Steps for Finding Your Way Out of the Darkness and Into the Light with God’s Gift of Song. In this book, I share my story, and I share some information about music and it’s healing power. I pray that I can publish it and touch the heart of someone who is suffering at the hands of abusers like I did. Love and prayers to you and anyone else who has dealt with the pain of emotional abuse.


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Emotional abuse is never ok. It can leave scars much deeper than any fist hitting flesh. The wounds are carried in the mind, heart and soul. People who are sensitive and caring are usually the victims. They are easy to manipulate because they really care about others. It often starts with the perpetrator putting the victim on a pedestal. When someone goes too fast claiming “love at first site” or something else it should give someone pause. It can happen but healthy relationships are built over time. Another red flag is “I love you so much I want you to myself.” If you plan things with other than the perpetrator they will make you feel guilty. Tell you that obviously you dont’ care about them. They should be enough. Slowly they will isolate you from people that care about you. You end up under their control completely. Sometimes they will…

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  1. I read the original post attached and it’s a very powerful post if I may say so. abusive relationships are often difficult for a person to extricate oneself from. Often even if you extricate yourself from an abusive relationship it’s not uncommon for that person to be killed and sometimes along with their children then the partner/husband/ex would kill themselves too so murder suicides are not uncommon. the statistics these days as far as domestic violence is concerned are staggering. here in Australia it’s alarming what the statistics are for domestic violence and often women are the ones who are killed by somebody they are in a relationship with or were previously in a relationship with but here carrying guns is not a right of passage like it is in the US and often I don’t think you’re allowed to be equipped with a taser or mace as it is known in the US but some people are often left with a lasting legacy from any abuse whether emotional physical sexual and in the case of the lator people often never talk about it. they quell their pain with drugs and alcohol and often this could end in a premature death often from an overdose or a suicide. I’m sorry this is as powerful as it is but I listen to news stories and read the newspapers and you often don’t know what to think.


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